Life In The Slow Lane

Yesterday I realized how fast our pace of life really is compared to times gone by.  On Canada Day, Lily dragged me to watch the reenactment of the War of 1812 at Fort Henry in Kingston.  I wanted to see some bands play down in the park.

I actually thought we would be able to do both, but I forgot they were reenacting a war from 1812 and not from 2012.  Things moved MUCH slower back then.  We had to wait for the ships to come down the lake and they were late because of the wind.  I kept looking at my watch and thinking, “Not a chance we’re going to see the band I was hoping to see perform.”

When the ground troops finally got to shore, they took a long time getting into position to actually fight.  If I had have been alive back then, I think I would have gone home and waited for the next war.  It moved way too slowly!  It’s a wonder anyone died.  Bullets went about as fast and far as I can take a slap shot.  I think an average person could have ducked and easily gotten out of the way.

Time kept ticking.  Finally the Americans and the Canadians got close enough to do some damage.  You know that line in the movies, “Don’t shoot till you see the whites of their eyes”?  That wasn’t said to draw the enemy in – it was said because, with their accuracy, they couldn’t hit someone whose whites of their eyes they couldn’t see!

I’ve seen movies depicting great wars of the past.  They’re all fake – those battles never developed as fast as they portray them.  Seriously, you could go to the store, get some pop and chips (not that I would eat it), come back and still wait to see it all unfold.

The funny thing was, every time an American solider died, the crowd cheered.  And though the war was a real nail biter, in the end our troops won and the Americans surrendered.  So, I’m glad to report, we won . . . again.  We’re safe until the next reenactment.

When it was finally over, I looked at my watch and we had pretty much missed all the music in the park.  Thank you, War of 1812.  As we walked back to the car, Lily thanked me several times for enduring the event for her sake.  Interesting note:  we drove home (about 14 km) in less time than it took the talk ship to make its way past the downtown to the Fort Henry battle area (about 1 km).

Here’s the thing:  we don’t even realize how quickly we want things to happen, take place or develop.  And, we can carry that attitude into our time with God.  We want answers quickly.  We feel we need to keep our time with God short because we have somewhere to be, something to do.  We get bored reading the Bible and distracted praying.  But what we need to do is slow down, take a trip back in time to an era like, say . . . 1812 when everything was so much slower.  Just be in the moment, enjoy it, don’t rush it, and don’t look at your watch.  Don’t let our fast paced life rob you of a rich time with God.

Until Next Time!

Pastor Paul

Question: How do you slow your pace to take time with God?

Amazing Grace

Let me give you a little insight into my world. Grace is big in a pastor’s life. Most people think pastors are official grace givers at any event.  At dinner, about 98 percent of the time, people will look to the pastor to say grace.  At wedding receptions, banquets, barbecues, family gatherings, dinner out with friends, anywhere food is being served, probably the pastor will be asked to say grace.

Sometimes I can see the whole thing unfold. Just before the meal the host will scan the room.  At this point, I can read their mind: they’re thinking, “Whom can I get to say grace?”  Then they spot me, their eyes get big, the expression on their face changes from concern to relief, a smile appears, and then the head nod that says, “ah yes, the pastor. Why didn’t I think of him before?” Then they make a b-line to me.

Actually, I count it an honour to say grace in public.  A few years ago my old high school celebrated its 50th anniversary (not that I was in high school 50 years ago). I received a phone call asking if I was planning on attending, and if so, would I say grace at the gala dinner banquet.  Based on their knowledge of me in high school, they would never have asked me, but now that I’m a pastor, saying the grace was a perfect job for me.

 There are some people who think the pastor has a corner on grace and not just saying it.  I’ve had many people ask me to put in a good word for them with the “Big Guy”. There have been times where people have made a comment like, “well, you know, he has God on his side.” I could go on, but you get the idea:  people think pastors are grace sayers and grace receivers.

The other day I had something different happen.  We were at our trailer, opening it up for the year, and a neighbour who heard I had had a heart attack said to me, “You having a heart attack? You have to wonder about that.”  He said it as if he didn’t think bad things happened to pastors, or he was questioning what I did to get God mad at me. It’s even possible he was thinking that my heart attack proved there is no God.

That bothered me because usually people see pastors as being on the good side of grace. I wanted to say, “Wait a minute!  The fact that I’m still here, standing and breathing is a sign I’m on the good side of grace.”  But the opportunity didn’t arise at that moment.

Grace is an amazing thing. It can be spoken as a thanks to God, it can be used as a name (I have a niece named Grace).  It can be given, as undeserved favour, and it can be withheld as punishment or, at the very least, as being uncaring.

But the real amazing thing about grace is that we are ALL on the good side of grace.  God sent Jesus, His only son, to us as an instrument of grace.  What we need to do is make sure we have received God’s grace by believing in Jesus and claiming him as Lord … and then, live out our days knowing that nothing we have done, said, thought or contributed has any merit towards us being recipients of God’s grace. It is God’s unmerited favour on us.  That is truly amazing!

Until Next Time!

Pastor Paul

What ways do you see the grace of God showing up in your life?  Leave a comment below.