Creating joy in someone’s life is a good thing. I think everyone should strive to do it more.
Who knows? Maybe we’d have fewer wars in the world; we’d all get along better.
I’m not sure why we don’t intentionally create joy for others. Maybe it’s that we are so self-absorbed with our own stuff that we don’t think of others.
Personality is a factor in creating joy for others as well. Some people just don’t think of it.
Me, however, I’m often thinking of it – especially with cashiers in whatever store I’m in. I do have to be in the right mood and not in a hurry, but I will often say something or do something that will make them smile.
I’ve also brought a smile to more than one waiter’s face, just by initiating a brief conversation about their day or about customers like me.
It’s pretty easy and it comes naturally to me.
My wife, Lily, often just shakes her head and smiles, which for me also means I’ve created a little bit of joy for her.
The fact is you feel good when you can put a smile on someone’s face. It’s not much but it makes an impact.
Recently my brother and I bought scooters.
Ya, no, not the kind you power by pushing with your foot on the pavement. These are electric and can go 31 kilometres per hour. We got them to bomb around the little beach town we vacation at.
Our wives were not convinced we needed them but we said we could do short grocery runs with them and quickly scoot to the beach to see what the water was like and then report back.
… Sure, that wasn’t all that convincing but we got them anyway. And we’ve been ripping them everywhere, of course with the throttle wide open all the time.
We’re starting to get a reputation in the park.
My brother, John, was at the park office talking to the owner who told John he had had to tell a teenager to slow down on her scooter.
One of the ladies in the office piped up, with a smile on her face, “Yes, I see a couple of grey haired men bombing around on them too!”
A few days later I rode my scooter down to the office. I could see two ladies behind the desk chuckling away. I knew the laughs were for me. So when I entered the office I said to them, “You have to get one. They’re pretty fun.”
That comment just produced more giggles which worked into me creating joy in their lives.
As I left the office, one of the women said, “You and your brother are reliving your childhood, aren’t you?”
Big smiles all the way around. I was smiling and they both had big grins on their faces.
Just another day of creating a little joy in someone’s life.
Here’s the thing: God is the source of all joy. If you’ve been touched by the deep joy that God gives, it should be in you to create for others. If you haven’t, I encourage you to seek God. His joy comes as a gift along with His acceptance, love and forgiveness. His joy will help you create joy in other people.
That’s Life!
Paul
Question: How have you created joy for someone this week? Leave your comments and questions below.
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