I’ve determined that my fine motor skills are not what they should be.
It’s not as though I can’t work a pen or pencil, although, if you’ve seen some of my writing, you might call that into question.
When my son was little and watching me journal, he asked me a very thoughtful question. He said, “Daddy why are you scribbling?”
I told him I wasn’t, that I was writing, to which he rebutted “you are scribbling”.
So maybe I can’t wield a pen or pencil like other people.
I get along just fine doing most things. My hands work well: I can type, hold a baseball and catch a ball in my hand. I have no trouble holding or using a hockey stick … though my thumb is a little sore after a collision playing hockey this morning. But when it comes to more intricate moves, maybe I am lacking.
If you do something enough times you get the hang of it. And that should also be true when using your hands.
For instance, no matter how uncoordinated you are, if you practice tying your shoelaces enough times, you will get pretty good at it. … I’m glad to say that I have mastered that fine motor skill and I don’t think I even needed any remedial help with it.
But there are a few things that I just can’t seem to master. One of them is a video game joystick.
Maybe you have to be born after 1980 to use one. I can never get my thumbs and fingers doing the right things at the right time.
I was not much into video games but when my son was just starting out, we would play hockey on his Nintendo.
… Well, that lasted about a month.
We started off about equal but within a matter of weeks he had surpassed my skill level and never looked back.
Any time after that when he’d challenge me to play with him, I just smiled and said I was not in the mood. It was really because my fingers don’t work that well.
But there is one more thing that really bugs me and that is playing the guitar. I can practice the same thing over and over and never seem to get past a certain stage.
There is a little lick I’ve been trying to master for literally half a year. It is a couple of chords and then a solo part. I’ve played it over and over but I can’t get it to sound like it fits.
And my fingers on my right hand refuse to cooperate with my pick in my left hand.
I’ve practiced that bit way more than I ever practiced learning to tie my shoelaces. But if I had had this much trouble mastering my shoelaces, I would have switched to velcro straps instead.
Maybe you can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
Here’s the thing: We all have limitations; there are things we just can’t master or figure out. But there is a God who has created this whole world, who has never fretted one moment about accomplishing any of it. He is worth trusting your life to and depending on when you’ve reached your limitations.
That’s Life!
Paul
Question: What do you find hard to master? Leave your comments and questions below.
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