Sometimes when you tell people your problems, they make stuff up. They don’t have a better solution to your predicament, but they come across as experts anyway.
Even when you tell them what remedy you’re trying, they disagree and give you a fix that you don’t want to have to resort to.
People do this all the time.
Recently I got a new pair of skates (you can read that post here). They are awesome skates but there is one issue that I was having with them.
They were rubbing and causing about a 2 1/2” long rug burn on each ankle.
It wasn’t too bad the first time it happened, but then I played hockey a couple of days later before the rug burns had healed. That time it kind of opened the wounds up and made them a mess.
If you know anything about rug burns, they take a long time to heal – longer than a straight cut. So the next time I played, the scabs quickly opened up and it was very sore to play at first until I got used to it.
I knew I needed to do something or they would never get better … well, at least until after the season.
My solution was bandaids that were long and padded. I found some at the drugstore that were four inches long. I hoped that covering and cushioning my ankles would stop the disaster they had become.
I figured all I had to do was get the skin healed up. The skin would get tougher so that this situation wouldn’t happen again.
The next time I played I tried out my bandaids. Surprise, surprise – they worked like a charm!
There was a little blood but it was minimal.
This is when all the experts came to my rescue. As I was taking off the bandaids, the guys in the dressing room turned into Dr. Bob or something.
They all had solutions. My ankles still looked pretty messy so they didn’t think my solution would work.
The “back of a pack of matches” physicians had to give me their second, third, and fourth opinions. “Wear socks”, one said. Another one said, “Cut the foot part off a sock and just wear the ankle portion”.
Others agreed with the diagnosis and said there was no other way. “You have to put something over your ankles.”
I disagreed but smiled and said, “We will see.” They all trashed my solution.
Well, I’ve been doing the bandaid thing for a month now. I’ve stopped wearing one on my right ankle and it’s crazy – like magic, the skin has toughened up and I have no more issues!
The other ankle is almost ready to go. The next skate I’ll take the bandaid off and give it a shot.
Maybe Dr. Silcock does know best after all. … I’m sure glad I didn’t cut up socks and wear them like sweat bands around my ankles!
Here’s the thing: Other people will be the loudest voices in your life and it will be easy to listen to them. They are well-meaning voices and they may even have good ideas for you to follow. But the best voice to listen to is the still, small voice of God. It might be hard to hear God’s voice over all the other voices, but if you listen closely you will hear Him and He will give you the best advice hands down!
That’s Life!
Paul
Question: How do you hear God’s voice over other voices? Leave your comment below.
