Routines – some people have them and some people don’t. They can be a blessing and sometimes a curse.
In my home, one of us has a number of routines while the other one is not very routined at all.
It may surprise those who know Lily and me, but it’s me that’s the routined one and not Lily.
It’s not like my life is completely scheduled or set up to flow a certain way. It’s more like I have several things that I do the say way, or that I do at certain times on a regular basis … things like when I get up in the morning, how I go about making my breakfast, or my weekly wings night.
It also goes way beyond that to when and how I study for my sermons each week, when I write for my blog, and making sure I exercise each day.
In some ways it drives Lily nuts that I have to do things a certain way.
She just wishes I would do something different instead of being so predictable … like maybe not have wings on a Saturday night, and instead sit down with her to a nice, leafy arugula salad with delicious oil and vinaigrette dressing.
On the other hand, she takes comfort in those routines because she knows what I’m doing, when I’m doing it, and for how long.
What freaks her out sometimes is when I break a routine … like the other day.
She was in a panic when I got home from hockey, and wanted to know if I was alright, if I had heart pain or something.
After Saturday morning hockey, I usually get home around 8:20 am. This week I was talking with one of the guys when I left and we kept talking in the parking lot for over 20 minutes.
Lily was worried that she would get a call from the hospital that I had had another heart attack.
Now on the other hand, I don’t say too much but I can see how Lily could be a little more efficient if she had a few routines in her life.
Routines take the thinking out of what you do next. They give you tracks to work in. For example, I know the first thing I’m going to be doing Tuesday mornings at work; I don’t have to ponder where I’m going to start or what I should do next.
The routine thing for me has developed over the years because I did not grow up being very routined at all. But I have come to learn that having some routines in life helps you plan and schedule better, and ultimately keeps you moving in the right directions.
Some people see routine as being boring but, in reality, routines help you have more time to be creative because routines open up space and space is what you need to be creative. Did you hear that, Lily?
Here’s the thing: When we don’t have routines, things get squeezed out of our lives in favour of other things – maybe some good things, but not best things. One of the best things you can do is create a routine for your time with God. The space you create there will become an amazing environment to develop your relationship with God.
That’s Life!
Paul
Question: What’s one routine you try to stick to? Leave your comment below.
